Thursday, May 28, 2009

JOY

Hello to all,
I pray you are having a terrific Tuesday! I myself am! God is good! Not just good- GREAT! I have been working on writing a Bible study on JOY this week. I will be leading a retreat in October for my Home-girls and the retreat theme is JOY! I prefer typing the word 'JOY' in all caps because the more I'm learning about it the more I'm seeing that JOY is BIG! In order not to spill the surprises for my Home-girls and the retreat- I'm going to withhold all I'm learning until later. But for now just know- JOY IS BIG!

I have not forgotten about our Church Alive posts and keep your eyes out for the next one next week! I have given this topic so much thought that I've had trouble wading through it all. You would think it would be an easy topic- but the more I visit churches and the more I look at the book of Acts and the journeys of Paul and his New Testament letters I find that the matter can be complex- mostly because there are many characteristics of an Alive Church. With that being said- don't give up on me!

Allow me to give a teaser into the next post by offering a quote I read sometime ago by Rick Warren:

"You don't judge the strength of a church on its seating capacity but on its sending capacity."

I'll let you stew on that one for a bit!
God bless,
Lori

Thursday, May 21, 2009

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Been so busy...

Hello gals,
So sorry, it has been too long! I have been busy lately. Every night I sit down and want to write to you so badly but don't have the strength to do it from my cell phone- remember- I don't have Internet access where I live (only from my phone) and it is just way to tedious to blog from a cell phone keyboard!

I have much to catch you up on. But for today, I want to take you on a trip to BIRTHDAY land! The Drain family has several birthdays to celebrate in the month of May. First, my sweetie, Chad, will turn the big 39 on the 25th. (So that you get a personal look into the Drain family and get to know us a bit better allow me to share a bit more in depth with you!)

If you were to ask me who I most admire in this world (besides Jesus) I would tell you Chad. Don't even have to think about it! He is it! This man has taught me more about being a servant than anyone I know! He is constantly helping someone else out and never wants recognition for it. He goes above and beyond the call of servant hood every day by giving up his time for another soul. I don't remember the last time Chad had any time for himself yet he never complains. He gets so much joy out of giving and it shows!

Secondly, this man knows the worst of me and loves me anyway! He has shown me more times than I can count what grace lavished on a life looks and feels like. I love Jesus more today because of the way this man has loved me. He is an Ephesians 5 husband- loving his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. I am one blessed and thankful woman!

The second birthday celebration is for my soon to be 13 year old daughter, Shelby. I am so proud of this young lady! Not only is she beautiful on the outside but on the inside too! One of the things I admire most about her is she knows what she wants and she knows what she likes. She isn't indecisive about anything.

This year for her birthday she bought her own birthday gift (with a little help from grandparent birthday money) but she did at least half of it on her own. I reminded Shelby all weekend every good and perfect gift comes from the Lord. In normal Shelby style- she agreed with the biggest grin I've ever seen!

Meet Dakota (see the picture below). This is Shelby's new baby. He is six years old and as sweet as they come. She choose the name Dakota before she learned what the previous owners had named him. She thought about a name all weekend and decided on Dakota. We went Monday evening to pick him up and bring him home only to hear his owner call to him from inside the barn. When he brought the horse out we asked him what his name was- get this- it was Dakota. The Drain family had no idea what the horses name was. We went to see him on Saturday night with friends and the owner was not there. We saddled and rode him then called the owner to let him know we would take him. We never asked what his name was until we went to pick him up on Monday. How neat is that!

I have found so much pleasure in both Chad and Shelby and people everywhere. God has designed us to be in relationship. As I celebrate two lives this month I'm ever reminded of the goodness of God. How like him to bless his children with one another. Although relationships can be hard at times (Chad and I have proved this over and over), they are so worth it! They are worth every ounce of energy we pour into them. Allow me to encourage you today to pour forth! Pour into your family and existing friends. Spend yourself in building new friendships. I tell my children all the time "You can never have enough friends." Many times we get clickish- and feel we don't have time to develop new friends. If that is your mindset- you are missing out! There is joy to be had in new discovery. Our hearts have room for more- they can hold more than you think! So, seek out a new friend! And then- Celebrate!

Pouring forth and celebrating,
Lori

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Happy Belated Mother's Day

Hello friends,
Sorry it has been so long! I've been experiencing computer issues. I choose not to call them problems- I'm in denial. Honestly, I share a love hate relationship with computers. One day I love them and then when they don't preform properly- I just hate them! Anybody feel my pain?For the moment my computer is working so I thought I would hop online and wish you all a Happy Belated Mother's Day! I hope you enjoyed the beautiful day with your family!

My son, Gabe, proudly handed me two envelopes on Monday morning which he found in his folder from school. "Here mom, I made these for you" he said as he handed me the envelopes. "Why, thank you baby", I said as I began to peal the envelopes open. One envelope had a note that said this- "I love my mom because......" and Gabe's response was "because she is the only mom I had. I love you, Gabe." After laughing hysterically, a moment of total insecurity began to creep in. Did you notice the past tense usage of the word have? I know I'm getting older but give a mom a break!! Am I a has been? And of course, I wondered if Gabe would rather have another mom besides me. So, what's a mom to do? I asked him. And, his answer was no he liked me just fine. Boys! Praise the Lord- he likes me just fine.

In the next envelope I found coupons for free gifts that Gabe would give me. One was a free coupon to go worship God with the whole family. I love that Gabe knows exactly what makes mom happy! I found it rather funny that the next free coupon was for me to love Gabe as much as I wanted. He cracks me up! As I'm reading these 'free' coupons I imagined his teacher coaxing the students to offer to do something nice for mom like chores around the house. Not my Gabe. He worked all three coupons out to where he didn't have to do anything out of the ordinary! Such a smart boy.

He also had made me a 10 Ten Reasons why I love my mom list. Needless to say his list cracked me up. I don't have it with me today or I would give you the top ten run down. Several of the things were the normal stuff but a couple surprised me! I'll try to remember to bring them to the office with me so I can share them.

After thinking of Gabe's Mother's Day cards and some of my funniest Mother's Day memories I realized that you probably had a few stories to tell as well! Kids are so funny! Enjoy these moments girls- they fly by!

I am working on our next Church Alive post and I will try to get it up by the first of next week. Until then- enjoy your week!

Blessings,
Lori

Thursday, April 30, 2009

The Church Alive (Part 3)

Hello Friends,

I feel sure that each of you have been anxiously awaiting the third segment of the Church Alive. I've been a bit worried that you have probably been pacing the floors and hitting the refresh button over an over in anticipation. So sorry to keep you on pins and needles for such a long time! ha! Thank you for being patient- and for caring.

Before I dig in let's establish where we've been thus far on this topic. The 'church' is the people- not the building. An alive church is built upon repentant sinners. And, we have established all manner of what an alive church is not.

From here forward these segments are not based upon any order but will be rather random. So, for our next look into an alive church we will look to the book of Acts where we see the first church birthed. I recommend you read through at the very least the first eight chapters of Acts and if possible read the whole book looking for gatherings of the church.

Allow me to give you a bit of background. From the beginning chapter of Acts the church, as we know it today, is gathered and Jesus commands them to wait in Jerusalem for the gift of the Holy Spirit which he has promised. So, the apostles and Mary, Jesus mother and brothers and what the Bible calls 'the women' return to Jerusalem as Jesus said. Once there, the Bible tells us "they all joined together constantly in prayer." (Acts 1:14) Later we see in chapter two as they are together the Holy Spirit descends upon them.

The point I would like to make today about an alive church is this-an alive church is a church of prayer. We not only see this evidence from the beginning of Acts but through out the whole chapter. We see in Acts 2:42 that this early group of followers devoted themselves from the very beginning to several elements that were vital to their life and the spread of the Gospel. "They devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer" (Acts 2:42). So let's take a deeper look into the prayer life of these early followers and see why it was so vital to them.

First, It was vital to their relationship with the Risen and Ascended Lord, Jesus. Many of these men and women had traveled miles with Jesus in the flesh- prayer gave them that continuing presence and relationship. Second, it was vital to the effectiveness of their ministry and the spread of the Gospel. These early followers prayed earnestly. Their very lives depended on God's intervention not to mention the spread of the Gospel. These devoted followers prayed often and expectantly.

Take a look at Acts 4:23-31. Peter and John have just been released from jail for preaching in the name of Jesus. Tensions were rising in the city and they felt it. Remember, not too long ago many of them watched as Jesus was arrested, tried, beaten and brutally killed. I imagine their fears were rising with every breath they took as their minds wondered if they could be next to suffer. Yes, Jesus rose from the dead but not before he suffered and died. In our human minds we can't grasp suffering like that nor do we want to be subject to it.

Peter and John, having just been released from jail, return to the fellowship of believers. I love what the Bible says about their return "Peter and John went back to their own people". I can't think of anywhere I love to be but with my own people (the church). There is comfort and safety that comes from being with your own. Peter and John didn't waste a moment of time when they arrived back with their own. Immediately they began to share their plight. There is something about the comforts of being with our own that allows us to be venerable and share our stuff. And, there is something very special about this group of followers in Acts- they were all united in the same mission and I believe they all shared in the sufferings that were brought about by seeing this mission to fulfillment. John and Peter's problems were their problems too.

Stay with me here for a moment as I share a side note to the topic of prayer. Do you see through Peter and John's story that the church is a place where we bring our fears, struggles, and our needs to? When is the last time you let down your defenses and were real with those in your fellowship (your own people)? This early group of followers at their core were real with one another. They didn't hold back for fear of looking stupid or for fear somebody might think they didn't have it together! Look back to Acts 4:13. Those in the crowd saw Peter and John's courage- why? Because they realized they were unschooled, ordinary men. I don't know about you but this helps me. If this early fellowship made up of ordinary men and women can receive power to do the unthinkable and lead an astonishing movement for Jesus Christ and still need to share their needs with one another so can we. Don't you and I (the church today) share a common unity with one another just as these young followers did? Of course we do!

What did that fellowship of believers do when Peter and John shared their need? They took it immediately to the One who was capable of handling it- Jesus. The Bible says "When they heard this they raised their voices together in prayer to God" (Acts 4:24). The word 'raised' here means to cry out or to sing. I'm not sure but I like to believe that for a time all their voices were audibly speaking aloud and possibly all at once.

Some of the most amazing moments I have ever experienced have been through prayer. I have traveled twice now to India for mission work and in both trips I experienced a depth of prayer I have never experienced before. What you may find most amazing is that I didn't understand a single word of most of the prayers prayed there because they were not in my language. Many times when the minister would pray the entire congregation would pray aloud too. I couldn't understand what they were saying but the desperation and adoration in the tone of their voices said what I needed to know.

After every church service we participated in those present were invited to come forward at the end if they had any prayer needs. Each time we were overwhelmed with people waiting at the front of the church for us to pray for and over them. There were all sorts of needs. Some brought handicapped children or family members and laid them at our feet for us to lay hands upon and pray. Many would just fall to their knees at our feet. Once a lady brought a young girl forward and shared that her mother had died and her father had ran away and she was homeless. Honestly, I have never felt so unworthy or humbled in my life. Who was I that I could take their needs to God when these precious ones could go straight to the Throne of Grace without my help (and probably have more success!)? I realized later it wasn't that I could take their need to God and they couldn't it was the need for our team to 'share in their sufferings' through prayer. To in some way carry their burdens if at all possible- but carry them to the Lord. The needs of the people were so overwhelming-so huge! But, our God is a HUGE God who is capable of handling every last one of them! So, we took the needs to Him. The people came- they were real- their needs were real and so was our love an compassion for their needs. So much so that I'm still praying! Unfortunately I'm terrible with words (grammar and spelling too- as you well know), but know this experience is one I will never forget-It has been and always will be a privilege to take everything to God in prayer.

If you read on in Acts 4 we find that these followers prayed specifically and they used scripture to express their need and God rocked the house! Sisters, I yearn to be a part of a movement like this. Where men and women come together to seek God's will, to ask big things of God and to EXPECT him to answer. How often do we pull away from the world and seek God's will for a situation instead of charging ahead, making a decision and THEN asking God to bless what we have decided. I've done this myself and by the grace of God many times he has chosen to bless what I've decided without his input. (Thank you Lord!) But what would our lives and churches looked like if we let go of token prayers before meetings and really sought God and listened for him before we made plans? I imagine we might experience a movement from the Lord where we felt like our lives had been rocked!

I've gone to meddling and preaching a bit now (so sorry). Bottom line- and alive church is a praying church. A church that seeks God through prayer for direction, discernment and vision. It is a church that brings the needs of the people before our capable God. It is a church that expects for God to hear and answer.

Again, I have so much to say on this topic of a praying 'alive' church. I am holding back a bit in order to bring the subject back up in our last segment.

Let me end by saying God answers prayers- all sorts of them and he answers them in all sorts of ways. I've heard it said, "A praying church is a staying church". I'll let you decide.

Blessings,

Lori

Friday, April 24, 2009

Fabulous Friday!

Hello gals! Today is FABULOUS FRIDAY! How do I know?? Look out your window! Could the weather be any better? The Drain's have big plans for tonight. We are celebrating a friends 50th Birthday with a bon fire complete with all the fixins'- hot dogs and smores! I don't believe life gets much better than that! Friends and Food. My 2 favorite F's!

I wanted to let you know I have worked on our next segment of the 'Church Alive' this week but I'm not quite ready to post it yet. I have a ruff draft saved but it is not post worthy as of this moment. I have a full day today so I apologize for not having it ready. Please check back next week and hopefully it will be completed. Thank you for sticking with me. And, don't forget to email me or post what you think the qualities of an Alive Church are. I'm desperate for feedback- it helps so much! So, bring it on!

I pray you all have a fun filled fabulous Friday! Don't forget to give the Lord some Praise today! Give Him a big shout out for this amazing weather we are basking in!
Love to all,
Lori

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Hello gals,
This past Sunday our family visited a church in Kingsport. We enjoyed worship very much. The service we attended was a 9:30 Contemporary Worship Service and it was packed with people. We were running a bit late and luckily found a seat on the back row. What impressed me about this service was the diversity of ages in attendance. I saw just as many (if not more) seniors than I did youngsters! And- I loved it! And, after looking around I realized I am embarking on becoming a member of the 'middle aged' group. Whatever that means! ha!

My son seemed to enjoy the service as well. He asked all manner of questions. And he made a great observation about the preacher- allow me to quote my 10 year old: "He (the preacher) said God more than anybody I've ever heard." I just about laughed my head off. What children pick up on!

In case you don't know our family has spent the last two months visiting different churches for worship. We have enjoyed every church we have worshipped with. Not one has been the same. Some have been large in attendance and some have been very small. Some have had traditional music, some blended and some contemporary. Some have had choir music- some have not. Some have had special solos some have not. Some have been very formal and some have been very casual. Some had offering meditations some have not. Some have served communion some have not. Some have had 3 point sermons and some have had narritive preaching and one team preached (which was rather cool). Thus far, all have offered an invitation at the end.

This experenice has been rather neat in that we are getting to see how other members of the Body of Chirst worship. I can honestly say we have enjoyed worshipping in every church we have set foot in thus far. Every single one has been different in the order of service and style but one thing has been the same through out- everyone has worshipped the same Lord and Saviour- Jesus Christ. Priceless!

Enjoy your day today sisters! And, see if you can beat the preacher's record today- how often can you talk about God today? Let's spend ourselves praising Him- allow Him to be the Lord of your Tuesday!

Love to all,
Lori